The other day i went to look for my mother and i noticed she was angry and frustrated, which is not like her especially when i'm around her;however she sat me down and told what one of her coworkers did (a female) 54 yrs of age.
About three years ago the co-worker,now married for 17yrs and counting,found out her so called "HUSBAND"washaving an affair with a 15 year old child.What the co-worker did, in my opinion was extremely disgusting..she threw acid on the child causing extreme burns on the left side of her body!the burns were so extreme the her left jaw is pulled back exposing all of her teeth.
To add to this twisted three way affair,the co-worker is now at the freeport police station,patiently awaiting july7,2011 when she will be sentenced,and to think while the co-worker is in jail her so-called "HUSBAND"was seen in the city holding hands and cuddling with the same girl his wife 'burnt up" out of love and jealousy for him ,not to meantion my mother and their children are the only one's visiting her..the "HUSBAND" does nothing,he never visits ,takes her calls nor does show any remorse or sadness at all; i told my mothe she held on to some thing that was long gone.My mother insists the actions of her friend were fair and just as a school child should not be seeking comfort in the form af a relationship knowing the man is married and has children that could be her parents,i strongly disagreed with her.
I honestly think if a man cheats with you,he'll cheat on you.No woman can stop a man from doing what he wants,but a woman can learn from her mistakes,be stronger,be overly confident,love one's self first and set boundaries to be the woman,the mother and the wife you know you can be.My question is ..is the role of a woman to stand by your spouse through everything if you both are truly in love (like story above)since forgiven mistakes MAY help the relationship grow stronger? or do you think once a man does certain things you sholud let him go..more than likely he'll do it again?